The Intimacy Code
A manifesto for feeling again in a world that forgot how. The book explores how technology reshapes our capacity to touch, listen, and love.
Curious to explore The Intimacy Code with others? I offer reading circles and tailored sessions for teams and communities.
What it is
A practical, poetic lens for designing connection — attention, trust, and emotional safety.
What you’ll get
A vocabulary for intimacy in the digital age — and habits that bring you back to presence.
Best for
Builders, readers, and leaders who want depth beyond metrics, swipes, and noise.
About the Book
The Intimacy Code blends philosophy, design thinking, and sensual psychology to decode how connection evolves in the digital age. Each chapter invites readers to reprogram their relationship with attention.
From the loneliness epidemic to emotional AI, the book offers language for those who crave depth beyond screens — without turning life into performance.
Inside the themes
- Attention as intimacy (and what apps trained us to forget)
- Emotional interface design: tone, boundaries, consent
- Presence practices: rituals that reduce friction and restore feeling
The Intimacy Code
A book for those who still believe technology can feel. It explores the space between our devices—where attention becomes touch and language becomes a design decision.
Not self-help—an act of remembering that feeling deeply is a form of intelligence. Part manifesto, part field guide, written for the ones who want warmth without noise.
Best for readers, product teams, and creators working in sensitive spaces—where tone, trust, and desire are part of the UX.
For Readers Who Feel
It’s for the curious — the ones who notice how their pulse changes when a message arrives, who sense that design choices shape desire.
Next (optional)
Excerpts, guided reflections, and small reading circles. If you want early access, write me from the contact page and mention “Intimacy Code”.
Related Atmospheres
If the book resonates, these videos extend the same mood: presence, soft heat, and a calmer relationship with the screen.
Soft Heat (playlist)
Longer sessions — perfect for evenings, reflection, and reset.
FAQ
Is it more philosophy or practical?
Both — reflective writing grounded in real design patterns, language, and everyday rituals.
Can Diego speak or run a workshop based on the book?
Yes. Workshops and private labs can be tailored for product teams, founders, and communities. Use the contact page to start.
“Technology didn’t steal our touch — it only reminded us how much it matters.”
— The Intimacy Code